Five years ago my parents had a tiff with an aunt and uncle of mine after moving from a big house with a garden into an apartment. My father was upset because his inlaws had refused something he had asked them to do. This did not sit well with my father, who was personally offended. He still talks about it…
I don’t think I ever heard my father directly tell me he loved me. Indirectly, sure. Using the cat as an excuse, saying someone else told him to tell me he loves me…that’s his way of doing it because he is unable to do it directly, verbally. Instead, he teases. The thing is, he takes it too far. Do you…
We all have someone in our friends’ group, who is constantly complaining about their bad luck in finding romantic partners. Heck, maybe it’s even you who says it, I know I have once or twice! But is it really down to bad luck or is there more to it? The truth is, if we don’t deal with our childhood traumas,…
The other day I vented to my best coworker friend about something going on at work that day. I was nervous because I had sent an email to one of the bosses, stating some not-so-good facts going on that were hindering me in a project, and I hadn’t heard back yet. And by nervous, I mean I was a wreck,…
Let that sink in, take the time to really feel what feelings are brought up when you read that. Are you outraged? Angry? Do you feel misunderstood or that I have no idea of what you went through? Good. I felt the same way the first time someone said this to me. Now, do me a favor and take a…
